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திங்கள், 23 ஏப்ரல், 2018

Never Hide Your Visit to a Psychologist


The people are still in the primitive age to accept the psychical dis-ease we all commonly confront with. When it comes to physical illness they even get pride to boast about a rare disease they recently had! 

But no one wants to express the psychological setback that everyone gets at some point of time in our life.
Not only of one's psychological issue, but they never come forward to reveal it, even on those solutions they had or the doctors/psychologists they consulted to cure it.

As a psychologist, me, doing services for more than 25+ years in the field, I rarely found a participant of one in hundred who openly & willingly say others about the psy issues evolved or at least about the psychologist who just had cured that mental illness ever!!

(Think about the gratitude of Bill Gates who openly declares his visit to a particular 'unknown psychologist', who only diverted his path)

Just like any other physical illnesses, we all shall consider the mind related illnesses as quiet a common one, for at least to guide others to give them the wellness of mind. Hiding the health information to others is a sin, that will return back like a "boomerang" in this life time only.

Though, the psychologists never expect any gratitude/reference from those participants, the destiny engraves the script of the selfish people without fail.

As Periyar EVR used to say, " It is always the duty of the beneficiaries to show their gratitude. A public servant shall not expect any gratitude, that is mean and petty mindedness only".

However, one thing worth considering is, when one guy closes the door for others to worship the truth, the universal energy shut him the whole possibilities for sure.
The givers are more and more offered by.
Be it money, time, energy or information. The more you are useful to humanity the more you will be blessed with. That's it and nothing more!

Yozenbalki
Senior Counseling Psychologist, 

புதன், 11 ஏப்ரல், 2018

Mind is One & Can it be Mended?

Without the assistance or guidance of one's mind no improvement is ever possible. No physical fitness or beauty can offer one, the desired life in any country, if one's mind is crippled & incapable to compete with the fellow beings. 

Mind gives the fame, money or power to every human personality. Physical illness may not stop one's growth in materialistic world. But, the illness in mind causes one, the ultimate blockage in his/her step by step developments. 

When a man/woman have been affected psychologically for some reason known or unknown it is, his/her total efficiency is suddenly/gradually lost, where his/her ability to concentrate & execute a plan fails miserably. Thereby he/she loses control over the life and its destiny.

Good news is, one can regain his/her paradise lost & get back the dynamic young mind once again. 

Psychology is an ocean of vastness and to sail in it, the pilot needs a lot of courage & experience in voyage. The voyage from known to unknown, the tangible to intangible & from words to wordless world of intuition and feelings. 

With the help & guidance of a genius psychologists or a master of practicality one can become normal again and even go high in the sky, than ever in the past graph sheet !! 

(This write-up also would be meaningful only for those who have attained "that height" in the past in his education/career and fallen down suddenly/gradually to reach a minus level in the present)

-Yozenbalki