Valentines Day & My Thoughts:

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Love is good & it was there right from its first day of evolution. And it is everywhere and will be in all the future too.

But, making a particular day for emphasizing as Valentines Day that is the day meant for exchanging one's love towards other seems utterly ridiculous & meaningless.

The trading communities of the world or the corporate sellers started propogating all 365 days into this day that day mother's day, father's day, friendship day, women's day etc to promote various commercial activities only to grab money from people.

Imagine this Valentines Day, inducing a compulsory purchase of gift articles to one's beloved at any cost that represents his/her level of love which is happening throughout this globe. And you can assume the magnificent sales and abundant income to the corporate riches.

Eventually these are all the tactics to improve their sales in exponential ways.

Not only in visible article sales, even in the service sectors, mobile/cyber world how much calls/data/travels the lovers spent might show a huge sales for the welfare of corporate gains.

Leaving behind such inducted pseudo days into our minds, the concept itself seems degrading our natural human behaviour. Yes. If a boy cannot present a gift on a particular day to his lover/mother/father/friend, his love told as an unfit one, considered lacking.

Here, the commercial society unconsciously injecting the poison in to everyone & prepares a wide sales base there upon.

Not only that, here, the not-loving students in a school/college/working place are forced to dump into a guilty conscious as to they are incapable to love anyone in the world and are unconsciously stamped as unfit people in front of the so called Valentines Lovers !!

The reality is otherwise. Love may come/may not come at any time & can express/not by various means to one. The commercial corporates, cannot impose a particular day for that ever.

Nature, makes different flowers to bloom in different times with innumerable colours and fragrances, but never at once.

Same truth applies here as to, no special day can be summoned over here for the sake of expressing one's love towards other. Nations can remember a particular day. But, individual flowers cannot be forced to open its petals on a particular induced-day, to celebrate as one mass.

So, why do you demean your Eternal love by giving gift or expressing it, on a limited and particular "Inducted-Days"?

Fine. It's just a thought to express my opinion.

Now, it's upto you to ponder over and to know the futility of celebrating the commercially imposed "individual special days" into our orbits.

-Yozenbalki
Senior Psychologist & Therapist 

Chennai
South India
http://www.yozenmind.com

Children Love their Parents more than they Do!!

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Do You parents know one thing?

The most fallacious truth is that always the parents love their children "more than" the children do!!

Yes! All the books and scriptures go on engraving/painting the so called pseudo image. It's not so in my long years of association in child psychology and their dynamism of their inner subconscious mind.

Usually, children only love their parents unconditionally in whatever the adverse situations in life. Unlike children, parents only put forth the conditions upon conditions to show love and shower material comforts to their children.

Parents do bargain, good scores in studies, strict code of conducts, military kind of time management etc for giving them food, cloth and shelter plus the man made education system & modern gadgets. Just a barter system!!

Though the parenthood of the whole world can console that they do so only for the welfare of the children, I still raise my voice as to why do you over pressure the little flowers for your foolish materialistic rules and intellectual idiosity of the world. Can't you see its futility, failures and void in making a sensible children out of such commercialism?

Just understand the prime fact that you are the first lover and caretaker of your child. All other external attributes from society to your child, are secondary and irrelevant one.

I am telling you really, if you started loving your child unconditionally just for the sake of being your child, the puzzle will be solved and there will be no need to take him/her to any psychiatrist in the world at any time at all.

Oh my friend! All that I positively say here is contained in my own experience. If you are in my position to feel the love of all children unto their parents, you will be surprised and will be feeling guilty for your life time, I bet you. Compare to the love of any child in the world our parental love seems very mean and mediocre by all standards Sir!

By the by, one need not be a vigilant watch dog to assess constantly the growth of a 'plant-root' spreading on beneath the earth, that suspiciously! But, as a responsible gardener, one has to ensure those five natural elements, including watering and shall then stay away to invite sun shine on the little flower-pot!

That's it. Now, God takes care of, more than our humanly shortsighted possibilities!

-Yozenbalki
Senior Psychologist,
& Therapist
Chennai, South India.
http:// www.yozenmind.com