🌿 Love today is everywhere —
schools, colleges, offices, friendships, and digital spaces.
Yet breakups, divorces, emotional wounds
are higher than ever before.
Why?
Because couples understand romance,
but they do not understand human nature.
Relationships fail not because people are bad…
but because men do not understand what womanhood truly is,
and women do not understand what manhood actually means.
This misunderstanding is universal —
across countries, cultures, and generations.
🌑 1. Women seek safety — a truth older than civilization
A woman may speak of love, beauty, dreams, equality…
But deep inside her subconscious,
an ancient biological intelligence whispers:
✔️ “Find a man who can protect you.”
✔️ “Find a man who will not run away.”
✔️ “Find a man who can create a safe nest for your children.”
This is not taught.
This is not modern.
This is not cultural conditioning.
It is the cosmic design of femininity —
the universe’s way of protecting future generations.
A woman chooses not only a partner…
she chooses the father of her children.
Even if she doesn’t consciously realize it.
🌑 2. Men seek companionship — not responsibility
A man, on the other hand,
approaches relationships very differently.
Most men desire:
✔️ emotional connection
✔️ support
✔️ affection
✔️ physical closeness
✔️ a partner for the present
But they are not born with the instinct to protect a family.
Responsibility does not come naturally—
it comes only when he chooses to evolve.
This is not weakness.
It is nature.
Men love freedom.
Women love stability.
Neither is wrong.
Both are original tendencies.
But when these instincts collide,
love fractures.
🌑 3. When instincts clash, relationships collapse
A woman expects:
“Be dependable. Build a life with me.”
A man thinks:
“Don’t bind me. I only wanted closeness.”
This mismatch leads to:
• breakups
• emotional distance
• insecurity
• trust issues
• unstable marriages
• long-term loneliness
The truth is simple:
They love each other…
but they do not understand each other.
🌿 4. Unstable couples create unstable children
A relationship is not just two adults.
It is the foundation of a child’s future mind.
When partners keep changing,
when homes lack safety and continuity,
children grow with:
• insecurity
• confusion
• anger
• identity crisis
• addiction tendencies
• violent or unstable behaviour
These children, when grown up:
❗ become emotionally disturbed
❗ fall into drugs
❗ join violent groups
❗ or become abusers themselves
Not because they are evil.
But because they were born in emotional disorderliness.
Humanity collapses
when the home is unstable.
🌑 5. The real solution — choose partners based on nature, not excitement
Women must choose men who embrace responsibility.
Not charm.
Not thrill.
Not temporary affection.
But men who say:
“I will stand with you.
I will protect our future.
I will be a father worthy of our children.”
These men become
stable husbands and strong fathers.
Men must choose women who can nurture life.
Not beauty alone.
Not novelty.
Not momentary excitement.
But women who carry:
• compassion
• emotional intelligence
• stability
• the strength to guide children
• the wisdom to build a home
These women create
healthy children and healthy societies.
🌟 Conclusion: Rise above instinct, rise into responsibility
Love becomes strong
only when men and women evolve
beyond their primitive instincts.
When a woman embraces stability with grace,
and a man embraces responsibility with honour —
a new harmony is born.
Because relationships are not just personal choices…
they are celestial responsibilities
given to men and women
to build better families and better futures.
So men and women must rise to their higher roles —
to love with maturity,
to live with purpose,
and to create children who will build
a stronger, kinder society.
When love reaches this maturity,
it no longer breaks.
It becomes a lifelong partnership
of trust, strength, and shared destiny.
-Yozen Balki
