Narcissists appear bold, sharp, and confident on the outside.
But most people don’t realize one truth:
Their confidence is not real.
It is a mask.
Behind that mask lies a deep fear
a fear of being ordinary,
a fear of being seen,
a fear of being emotionally exposed.
What looks like strength is often the shield of a frightened mind
trying to hide its inner collapse.
🌿 The Full Article (with your mask concept beautifully added)
Today, the word narcissism is thrown casually in every direction.
But true narcissism is not confidence
it is inner disorder wearing the mask of strength.
Narcissists look powerful, charming, and superior.
Yet behind that appearance lies:
• insecurity
• emotional fragility
• fear of rejection
• fear of inadequacy
• fear of losing control
Their arrogance is not pride
it is protection.
Many narcissists live in a constant psychological tension:
they project the image of a warrior…
but inside, they tremble like children
afraid of being unmasked.
🌿 1. Narcissism is not self-love, it is self-escape
A narcissist cannot face their truth.
So they escape into a character:
“I am perfect.
I am always right.
I cannot be questioned.”
This mask hides a mind drowning in disorderliness.
🌿 2. Narcissistic behaviour is fear wearing confidence
Every manipulation, every lie, every emotional attack
comes from fear
fear of losing attention,
fear of emotional exposure,
fear of being insignificant.
Their confidence is a costume,
not a character.
🌿 3. Disorder is celebrated as personality today
The Truth is:
Disease = Disorderliness
Mental Health = Orderliness
Society today glorifies disorder:
• manipulation becomes “cleverness”
• aggression becomes “dominance”
• selfishness becomes “self-love”
• arrogance becomes “attitude”
This world celebrates masks,
not minds.
🌿 4. Understanding is not blaming
Understanding narcissism is not about blaming people
or labelling their struggles with strange, complicated names.
It is about recognizing the silent collapse behind their mask
a collapse they themselves cannot understand.
🌿 5. Healing begins only when order returns
A narcissist heals not when they are exposed,
but when they are willing to face their inner disorder.
Healing is simply this:
Returning the mind to orderliness.
• emotional clarity
• inner balance
• empathy
• responsibility
• truthfulness
Only then does the mask fall.
And only then can change begin.
🌟 Conclusion
The world can create thousands of names for disorders…
but every disorder begins with one thing:
A mind that has lost its order.
Seeing through someone’s mask
is not cruelty —
it is wisdom.
Only when you understand their silent collapse
can you protect yourself,
and guide them —
if they are willing —
towards inner orderliness.
-Yozen Balki
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