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ஞாயிறு, 14 டிசம்பர், 2025

How a Surveyor Measured a Kingdom Without a Measurement Tape: Invention of Theodolite Survey


Centuries ago, a surveyor stood at the edge of a vast lake, holding a long measurement tape in his hands.

 

In front of him stretched endless water.

 

He paused.

 

“How do I measure this?” he wondered.

 

A measurement tape could not be laid across a lake.

Walking through water would destroy accuracy.

Boats would only introduce errors.

 

Yet behind him stood a command that could not be ignored.

 

The king had ordered the work to be completed.

 

And the lake was only a small part of the problem.

 

The kingdom itself spread across hundreds of kilometres—

towering mountains, deep valleys, dense forests, dangerous animals, and lands where a human foot could barely survive.

 

Measuring such a land by walking with a tape was not just slow.

It was impossible.



 At that moment, something important happened.

 

The surveyor stopped struggling with his legs

and began thinking with his mind.

 

When the Tape Could No Longer Go Further

 

A powerful idea suddenly emerged.

 

“Do I really need to use a measurement tape everywhere?”

 

What if—

just one distance could be measured accurately?

 

What if that single real length could become the foundation?

 

He realized this:

 

If one baseline was measured carefully using a long measurement tape,

and if two angles were known, every other distance could be calculated using mathematics Pythagoras Theorem.



The tape was no longer the hero.

The mind was.

 

The First Triangle That Changed Everything

 

He began by creating a single triangle—

a triangle with one real, measured side.

Thereafter the tape was not needed at all.

 

That triangle gave scale to everything that followed.

 

Then, carrying a newly refined angle-measuring instrument,

the theodolite,

he moved only through safe and accessible locations.

 

On selected hilltops,

he constructed tall stone pillars.

 

The sharp top of each pillar became a precise reference point.

 

From one triangle, another emerged.

From that, another.

 

Soon, the land was no longer something to be walked,

in a more traverse way.

It became something to be understood.

 

Mapping a Kingdom Without Walking Through It

 

Hundreds of triangles followed.

Then thousands.

 

No need to cross lakes.

No need to enter forests filled with danger.

No need to walk through swamps or valleys.



 By measuring angles alone,

and using mathematics,

the surveyor slowly revealed the true shape of the kingdom.

 

The entire land—

its length, breadth, and boundaries—

now existed on paper.

 

All this was achieved

without stretching a measurement tape across every inch of soil.

 

The Birth of Theodolite Survey

 

What began as a struggle

became a scientific revolution.

 

This approach—

measuring one baseline,

then expanding across the land using angles and triangles—

gave birth to what we now call theodolite surveying.

 

When the surveyor finally presented the map to the king,

the king saw his kingdom clearly for the first time.

 

But what he truly held

was proof of something greater:

 

Human intelligence can replace physical hardship.

 

Conclusion:

 

The day humans realized that

a measurement tape had limits

but the human mind did not,

was the day surveying changed forever.

 

That was the moment

theodolite survey was born—

not from comfort,

but from necessity, curiosity, and courage.


- Yozen Balki



வியாழன், 11 டிசம்பர், 2025

Urban Floods Are "Man-Made": A Truth the World Must Accept.

For millions of years, water has travelled across this planet through natural pathways—slopes, streams, brooks, canals, lakes, and gentle depressions shaped by the Earth itself. 

These pathways formed a perfect network through which excess rainwater moved from high ground to low ground, eventually reaching rivers and the sea. Nature designed a flawless system. Human civilization broke it.

In Tamil Nadu, we see this failure every monsoon. A few hours of moderate rain can now flood entire districts. Streets disappear under water, homes collapse, and cities freeze—not because rainfall has become extraordinary, but because the pathways that once carried water are no longer alive.

For centuries, Tamil society understood water profoundly. Our ancestors identified 47 unique types of water bodies, each crafted with a purpose and a rhythm. But modern development forgot all of them. Streams were buried, canals were encroached, lake boundaries stolen, and surplus water channels treated as empty land. Where water once flowed freely, concrete now stands arrogantly.

Urban flooding is often blamed on climate change, but the real cause lies much closer—in human greed, negligence, and ignorance. When 'poramboke' lands—streams, canals, pond areas—are illegally converted for construction, the city’s veins are cut off one by one. Water, trapped and confused, has no path but destruction.

If an individual commits theft, the law punishes them. If someone commits murder, they are arrested. 

But when someone blocks a natural water channel—and thousands suffer because of it—there is no punishment, no accountability, not even recognition of the crime. This is one of the greatest failures of modern governance.

Agriculture declined, villages emptied, and people migrated to cities. Expensive urban rent forced them toward lake-beds and canal routes. Political groups turned these encroachments into vote banks. Temporary huts became permanent homes; homes became apartments; apartments became towering blocks—all standing on the buried memories of water.

Walk just five kilometres around your home and ask yourself:
Can you find even one natural stream still flowing?

In most cities, the answer is no. We erased nature’s map and replaced it with our own confusion. We blocked the very slopes through which water silently protected us for thousands of years. Now, when rain falls, the land simply cannot breathe.

The irony is painful: the same cities that drown in monsoon beg for water in summer. Flood one month, drought the next—this is the signature of a civilization that forgot both drainage and storage. Lakes that once held water have become housing colonies; channels that once guided water have become roads; catchment areas are now parking lots. Water has nowhere to stay and nowhere to go.

And this is not only Tamil Nadu’s story. Not only India’s story.
This is the world’s story.

From New York to Beijing, Dubai to Berlin—every year we watch major cities drown in hours. Even the richest nations, with trillion-dollar technologies, stand helpless as water tears through their streets. Why? Because even they destroyed the micro-streams, the gentle slopes, the shallow depressions that nature crafted long before their skyscrapers existed.

A civilization that buries its water pathways cannot show shock when water rises to bury its cities.

It is time for governments to accept a truth they have avoided:
Urban floods are man-made.
They are the direct result of blocking natural water routes and pretending that development is simply more concrete.

Every nation must now elevate Hydrological Management to the level of a central ministry. Satellites should not exist only to spy on neighboring nations—they must map natural slopes in every five-square-kilometre zone. Water pathways must be restored scientifically, reconnected to living streams, and protected with the seriousness reserved for national security. A complete national water-route map must be placed before every Parliament and discussed as a matter of survival.

The world must face an uncomfortable truth:
Nature may tolerate our ignorance,
but it never forgives deliberate arrogance.


If we continue to choke its pathways, the floods we see today will look like harmless warnings compared to what is coming. Nature is not threatening us—it is promising us. A promise that every obstruction will be answered, every stolen waterway reclaimed, and every act of human greed paid for in full.

(Based on an original Tamil essay written by me in 2011)

And now, a final message—
not from governments,
not from science,
not from policy…

…but from Water itself.

🌿🌿

I Am Water

A poem by Yozen Balki
______________________

I am Water.

You have stolen my pathways—
the places where I once lived.
You raised great buildings
on the land that belonged to me.

For a few years, I remain silent.
I wait.

But one day—
when the rains grow heavy,
when the floods return,
in one unexpected year—
I will come back.

Slowly…
quietly…
I will slip beneath the foundations
and will uproot every structure
you built upon my home.

And I will reclaim
what has always been mine.

For I am Water.
I do not forget
where I belonged.

- Yozen Balki
Subconscious Transformation Therapist | Social Thinker

திங்கள், 8 டிசம்பர், 2025

Where Lies the Fault Psychology— In You or Your Spouse?

How Do You Evaluate Relationship?

Whenever a conflict arises between two people, how do we truly determine who is right? How do we understand where the mistake lies? Let us explore.

Whether it is

1. India–Pakistan’s Kashmir conflict,

2. Kerala–Tamil Nadu’s Mullaperiyar dispute,
or even a simple disagreement between you and me—
the principle remains the same.

Imagine this:

I am travelling in a boat with my friends. You come in another boat, and the two boats collide. A fight arises. Naturally, I will support my boatman and my friends.
And you will support your boat and your people.

This is human nature.

Immediately, two separate circles are formed.
And in this world, there will always be many such circles.

Without our invitation,
people who favour my circle will join to support me,
and people who favour your circle will join to support you.

Each side will bring their own arguments, emotions, and justifications.

So then—how will a fair solution ever emerge?

It can happen only if we find someone beyond both circles—
a neutral human being whose judgment both sides accept wholeheartedly.

Otherwise, the conflict will never be resolved.

But where do we search for such people?
Where do we find a Buddha?
A Ramakrishna Paramahamsa?
A truly impartial mind?

Even if such a person appears,
who will agree to their verdict?
Do we have real-world examples?

Look at the United Nations.
When disputes arise, does it act with pure justice?

Often, it supports whichever nation it fears or depends on.
The powerless—those without political weight—are brushed aside.

Did the world truly stand for Tamil Eelam?
Did any nation loudly condemn the injustice done to Tamils in their own homeland?

In this world, there are always people ready to twist logic, saying:
“The one who attacked is right, and the one who protected himself is wrong!”
We have seen such absurdity everywhere.

Take Saddam Hussein.
What was his “greatest mistake”?
America had other hidden interests,
but instead of admitting them,
they gave the flimsy excuse that he possessed chemical weapons.

They invaded Iraq,
destroyed the nation,
captured him, held a symbolic trial,
and executed him.

Later they casually said,
“We found no weapons.”

Not a single word of regret.
Not one apology.

Did the UN condemn America?
Did any nation declare war on America for this injustice?

No.

So when even global bodies with scholars and diplomats cannot uphold fairness consistently,
how will small organisations or ordinary individuals find perfect justice?

It becomes a beautiful illusion—nothing more.

In this world,
“The one holding the stick becomes the judge.”
Whoever gathers more people, more nations, more power—
the world fears them and often supports them,
rarely examining whether truth is actually on their side.

This is the nature of the world—
in the past, now, and forever.

Even in the Mahabharata, in the Dvapara Yuga,
Dharma itself was not standing fully.
Out of 105 warriors,
100 were on the side of adharma,
and only 5 stood for righteousness!
(What a ratio!)

Now we are in Kali Yuga.

Dharma does not even have one stable leg to stand on.
It crawls and struggles forward.

When will it finally reach the good,
the just, the righteous?

We do not know.

-Yozen Balki 

ஞாயிறு, 7 டிசம்பர், 2025

Your mind can be reset. Completely.

Have you ever wondered why life feels stuck… even when you try so hard to change?

Because the mind cannot heal itself 
from the wounds it didn’t create.

Your fears, your pain, your overthinking — none of these are your true nature.
They are just layers added by time, people, and circumstances.
And the beautiful truth is this:

Your mind can be reset. Completely.

Not by struggle.
Not by willpower.
But through the hands of someone who understands the hidden codes of your subconscious.

Just like a heart surgeon cannot operate on himself, you cannot remove your own emotional blocks.
You need a trained, experienced Psychologist who can rearrange, repair, and reset the patterns that hold you down.

And the surprising part?

Most lifelong issues start dissolving in just a few sessions.

When the right person sees your mind from the right angle...
healing becomes faster, easier, and permanent.

If your mind feels heavy, confused, tired, or exhausted…
come.
You don’t have to walk alone with that weight anymore.

Yozen Mind Center
Where clarity begins, and pain ends.

Where your life gets a second beginning.

– Yozen Balki
Senior Psychologist, Chennai
www.yozenmind.com

புதன், 3 டிசம்பர், 2025

When the Mind Has Only 10 Bytes: Why We Fail to Listen?

We live in a world filled with voices, messages, screens, and endless noise.
Yet, truly listening has become one of the scarcest human abilities of our time.

Surprisingly, most people do not fail to listen because they don’t want to.

They fail because their mind simply does not have the capacity to receive more.

It functions like an old basic mobile phone
that had only 10 bytes of storage.

Whatever name you saved had to fit into that tiny space.

If the name was:

Ramakrishna Parama Hamsa,

the phone could only store:

RamkrisParmHm

—because the memory was full.

Today, many minds work exactly the same way.

They hear you for a moment,
they catch 2–3 words,
then their mental storage flashes:

“Memory Full.”

They cannot retain more.
They cannot process further.
They cannot absorb deeper meaning.

Listening is not disappearing.
It is being overridden by mental overload.


🌿 Why Modern Minds Cannot Listen?

1. Overloaded Mental Storage

Opinions, assumptions, judgements, and past emotions
already occupy too much inner memory.

2. Too Many Background Apps

Like a computer running dozens of apps in the background,
the modern mind is drained by:

stress

social media noise

multitasking

dopamine addiction

emotional fatigue

No RAM left for listening.

3. Fast Mouth, Slow Processing

People interrupt—not because they are rude,
but because their mind cannot process
the detail or depth of your words.

4. No Inner Silence

A noisy mind cannot hear.
A restless mind cannot understand.
A hurried mind cannot absorb.

Listening requires empty space,
but today’s minds remain crowded.


🌿 The Lost Power of Listening Without Interruption

Listening is not a soft skill.
It is a spiritual discipline.

To listen without interrupting,
a person needs:

patience

emotional maturity

humility

curiosity

stillness


The greatest leaders, thinkers, psychologists, and creators
all share this one extraordinary trait:

They listen more than they speak.

Only those who listen deeply
grow deeply.

Only those who listen sincerely
understand life sincerely.

Only those who listen silently
rise silently.


🌿 Why Listening Creates Great Minds?

A good listener becomes:

wiser

calmer

solution-oriented

emotionally strong

socially intelligent


Listening is how the mind collects truth,
stores experience,
and builds wisdom.

Only good listeners become great personalities

in their chosen field.

Because learning begins not with speaking—
but with absorbing.

🌿 Conclusion

God has given man one mouth,
but two ears—
so that we may listen twice as much as we speak.

Listening is the gentle art of observing the world
without noise or haste.
It is the quiet capacity to absorb
both the good and the bad
hidden within everyday events.

These silent observations
become a source of wisdom
when real challenges arise.
They guide a person like an inner light
during difficult moments of life.

Because—

Information is the highest tool
that elevates a human being.

Good information, good books,
and the wise thoughts of noble people
must be received without interruption,
and absorbed slowly—
the way a bee gathers nectar,
sweetly and completely.

Only then does a person rise
from the ordinary
to the awakened human being
who sees, understands, and lives
with true awareness.

-Yozen Balki

How to Maintain a Good Love and Relationship (A psychological view of men, women, instincts, and lifelong harmony)

🌿 Love today is everywhere —
schools, colleges, offices, friendships, and digital spaces.
Yet breakups, divorces, emotional wounds
are higher than ever before.

Why?

Because couples understand romance,
but they do not understand human nature.

Relationships fail not because people are bad…
but because men do not understand what womanhood truly is,
and women do not understand what manhood actually means.

This misunderstanding is universal —
across countries, cultures, and generations.


🌑 1. Women seek safety — a truth older than civilization

A woman may speak of love, beauty, dreams, equality…
But deep inside her subconscious,
an ancient biological intelligence whispers:

✔️ “Find a man who can protect you.”
✔️ “Find a man who will not run away.”
✔️ “Find a man who can create a safe nest for your children.”

This is not taught.
This is not modern.
This is not cultural conditioning.

It is the cosmic design of femininity —
the universe’s way of protecting future generations.

A woman chooses not only a partner…
she chooses the father of her children.
Even if she doesn’t consciously realize it.


🌑 2. Men seek companionship — not responsibility

A man, on the other hand,
approaches relationships very differently.

Most men desire:
✔️ emotional connection
✔️ support
✔️ affection
✔️ physical closeness
✔️ a partner for the present

But they are not born with the instinct to protect a family.
Responsibility does not come naturally—
it comes only when he chooses to evolve.

This is not weakness.
It is nature.

Men love freedom.
Women love stability.

Neither is wrong.
Both are original tendencies.

But when these instincts collide,
love fractures.


🌑 3. When instincts clash, relationships collapse

A woman expects:
“Be dependable. Build a life with me.”

A man thinks:
“Don’t bind me. I only wanted closeness.”

This mismatch leads to:

• breakups
• emotional distance
• insecurity
• trust issues
• unstable marriages
• long-term loneliness

The truth is simple:

They love each other…
but they do not understand each other.


🌿 4. Unstable couples create unstable children

A relationship is not just two adults.
It is the foundation of a child’s future mind.

When partners keep changing,
when homes lack safety and continuity,
children grow with:

• insecurity
• confusion
• anger
• identity crisis
• addiction tendencies
• violent or unstable behaviour

These children, when grown up:

❗ become emotionally disturbed
❗ fall into drugs
❗ join violent groups
❗ or become abusers themselves

Not because they are evil.
But because they were born in emotional disorderliness.

Humanity collapses
when the home is unstable.


🌑 5. The real solution — choose partners based on nature, not excitement

Women must choose men who embrace responsibility.

Not charm.
Not thrill.
Not temporary affection.

But men who say:
“I will stand with you.
I will protect our future.
I will be a father worthy of our children.”

These men become
stable husbands and strong fathers.

Men must choose women who can nurture life.

Not beauty alone.
Not novelty.
Not momentary excitement.

But women who carry:

• compassion
• emotional intelligence
• stability
• the strength to guide children
• the wisdom to build a home

These women create
healthy children and healthy societies.


🌟 Conclusion: Rise above instinct, rise into responsibility

Love becomes strong
only when men and women evolve
beyond their primitive instincts.

When a woman embraces stability with grace,
and a man embraces responsibility with honour —
a new harmony is born.

Because relationships are not just personal choices…
they are celestial responsibilities
given to men and women
to build better families and better futures.

So men and women must rise to their higher roles —
to love with maturity,
to live with purpose,
and to create children who will build
a stronger, kinder society.

When love reaches this maturity,
it no longer breaks.
It becomes a lifelong partnership
of trust, strength, and shared destiny.

-Yozen Balki 

The Narcissistic Mind: The Silent Disorder Behind Their Mask

Narcissists appear bold, sharp, and confident on the outside.
But most people don’t realize one truth:

Their confidence is not real.
It is a mask.

Behind that mask lies a deep fear —
a fear of being ordinary,
a fear of being seen,
a fear of being emotionally exposed.

What looks like strength is often the shield of a frightened mind
trying to hide its inner collapse.

🌿 The Full Article (with your mask concept beautifully added)

Today, the word narcissism is thrown casually in every direction.
But true narcissism is not confidence —
it is inner disorder wearing the mask of strength.

Narcissists look powerful, charming, and superior.
Yet behind that appearance lies:

• insecurity
• emotional fragility
• fear of rejection
• fear of inadequacy
• fear of losing control

Their arrogance is not pride —
it is protection.

Many narcissists live in a constant psychological tension:
they project the image of a warrior…
but inside, they tremble like children
afraid of being unmasked.

🌿 1. Narcissism is not self-love — it is self-escape

A narcissist cannot face their truth.
So they escape into a character:

“I am perfect.
I am always right.
I cannot be questioned.”

This mask hides a mind drowning in disorderliness.

🌿 2. Narcissistic behaviour is fear wearing confidence

Every manipulation, every lie, every emotional attack
comes from fear —
fear of losing attention,
fear of emotional exposure,
fear of being insignificant.

Their confidence is a costume,
not a character.

🌿 3. Disorder is celebrated as personality today

The Truth is:

Disease = Disorderliness
Mental Health = Orderliness

Society today glorifies disorder:

• manipulation becomes “cleverness”
• aggression becomes “dominance”
• selfishness becomes “self-love”
• arrogance becomes “attitude”

This world celebrates masks,
not minds.

🌿 4. Understanding is not blaming

Understanding narcissism is not about blaming people
or labelling their struggles with strange, complicated names.

It is about recognizing the silent collapse behind their mask —
a collapse they themselves cannot understand.

🌿 5. Healing begins only when order returns

A narcissist heals not when they are exposed,
but when they are willing to face their inner disorder.

Healing is simply this:

Returning the mind to orderliness.

• emotional clarity
• inner balance
• empathy
• responsibility
• truthfulness

Only then does the mask fall.
And only then can change begin.

🌟 Conclusion

The world can create thousands of names for disorders…
but every disorder begins with one thing:
A mind that has lost its order.

Seeing through someone’s mask
is not cruelty —
it is wisdom.

Only when you understand their silent collapse
can you protect yourself,
and guide them —
if they are willing —
towards inner orderliness.

-Yozen Balki